Menopause, properly explained
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The short version
Five things worth knowing before you read on.
- Menopause is one day: 12 months after your last period. Most symptoms start years before, in perimenopause.
- Oestrogen works all over the body, which is why symptoms go far beyond hot flushes.
- Over 45 with typical symptoms, you usually do not need a blood test to be diagnosed.
- Combined HRT raises breast cancer risk slightly. Excess weight raises it far more.
- HRT is not for everyone, and it is not the only option. The conversation is for everyone.
Let’s do some maths
How long does this actually matter for?
51
The average age of menopause in the UK.
83
Average life expectancy for a woman in the UK.
32years
Over a third of your life, lived after menopause.
Hot flushes and night sweats
Seven years.
That is 2,555 days.
Every dot is a day. Symptoms often start in perimenopause, years before periods stop, and for some women they last more than ten years.
And we say ‘get on with it’?
Do we know what menopause actually is?
Menopause is
just one day.
Twelve months after your last period.
What is actually happening?
The ovaries wind down.
Brain
Sends the signal
It releases FSH to tell the ovaries to ripen an egg.
Ovaries
Fewer eggs to answer
So the brain shouts louder, and FSH climbs.
Hormones
Swing, then fall
Oestrogen and progesterone lurch up and down, then settle low.
That lurching is perimenopause. It can last for years before periods stop.
How oestrogen works
A key looking for a lock.
Made mainly in the ovaries, then carried in the blood.
It slips inside a cell and locks onto its receptor.
Together they switch genes on: build, repair, protect.
Oestrogen receptors, head to toe
It works everywhere.
Brain
Temperature, memory, mood and sleep.
Heart
Keeps arteries relaxed and flexible.
Bones
Slows down bone breakdown.
Joints
Less inflammation, more collagen.
Bladder
Keeps the lining strong.
Vagina
Keeps tissue thick, stretchy and moist.
Skin
Collagen, thickness and moisture.
Liver
Helps manage cholesterol.
And progesterone?
Oestrogen builds.
Progesterone balances.
In the womb
Keeps the lining in check
Oestrogen thickens the womb lining. Progesterone stops it overgrowing.
In the brain
A natural calmer
It acts on GABA, the brain’s calming system, and helps sleep.
In perimenopause
Often the first to fall
Ovulation becomes hit and miss, so periods turn heavy or erratic and sleep suffers.
Symptom or cause
The hot flush is a symptom.
The smoke alarm
Hot flushes
Loud, impossible to ignore, and the thing everyone talks about.
The fire
Falling oestrogen
Quiet, and still burning after you take the batteries out.
Go deeperThe science of the ovaries, oestrogen and progesterone
Why the ovaries wind down
You are born with all the eggs you will ever have. As the supply runs low in your forties, the ovaries respond less to FSH, the signal from the pituitary gland in the brain. They make less oestradiol, and less of a hormone called inhibin that normally keeps FSH in check, so FSH rises. Cycles become irregular, and often no egg is released.
When no egg is released, very little progesterone is made, so progesterone usually falls first. Oestrogen swings widely, sometimes higher than before, and then falls. After menopause the main oestrogen is oestrone, made in body fat at much lower levels.
How oestrogen works
Oestradiol is a steroid hormone made from cholesterol. It passes into cells and binds to oestrogen receptors, known as alpha and beta. The pair then moves to the DNA and changes which genes are switched on, which is why its effects build over days and weeks. Some receptors sit on the cell surface and act within minutes, for example in the walls of blood vessels.
Different tissues carry different mixes of receptors. Alpha receptors dominate in the womb, breast, liver and bone. Beta receptors are more common in the brain, bladder, gut and blood vessels. That is why falling oestrogen can be felt in so many places at once.
What progesterone does
Progesterone is made after an egg is released. In the womb it stops the lining overgrowing, and when it falls the lining sheds as a period. In the brain it is turned into allopregnanolone, which acts on the calming GABA system and helps sleep. With fewer cycles releasing an egg, perimenopause often brings heavier or erratic periods, breast tenderness and poorer sleep. It is also why anyone with a womb who takes oestrogen needs a progestogen alongside it.
It’s not just hot flushes
- Brain fog.
- Low mood.
- Aching joints.
- Broken sleep.
- Dryness and bladder trouble.
- Anxiety out of nowhere.
And it is not just ‘that time of life’.
Why hot flushes?
A twitchy thermostat.
Your thermostat sits in the hypothalamus. Oestrogen keeps its nerve cells calm.
With oestrogen: a wide comfort zone. Small rises go unnoticed.
Without it: the zone narrows, and the same small rise sets off a full cool down.
Why brain fog?
Your brain runs on oestrogen.
Fuel
Energy for brain cells
It helps brain cells take up and burn glucose.
Memory
Focus and word finding
It supports the brain’s memory and attention centres.
Mood
Serotonin and dopamine
It tunes the messengers that steady mood.
Sleep
The hidden culprit
Night sweats break sleep, and broken sleep breaks memory.
This is not dementia. For most women it eases after menopause.
Why aches and pains?
Oestrogen calms inflammation.
Joints
More inflammation
Receptors sit in cartilage and the joint lining. Cue stiffness, especially in the morning.
Tendons
Less collagen
Tendons and ligaments get stiffer and slower to heal.
Muscle
Strength falls faster
Muscle is lost more quickly unless you train it.
It has a name: the musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause.
Why dryness and bladder trouble?
Tissues that need oestrogen.
With oestrogen
Thick. Moist. Protected.
A cushioned, stretchy lining with an acidic, protective environment.
Without it
Thinner. Drier. Exposed.
Soreness, painful sex, urgency and more urine infections.
This does not settle with time. Vaginal oestrogen treats it at the source.
Plan early
Your forties are your window. Build bone and muscle. Know your heart risk. Have the conversation early.
Go deeperThe science of flushes, brain fog, aches and bladder changes
Hot flushes
Your body keeps its core temperature inside a narrow comfort zone, set by the hypothalamus in the brain. A group of nerve cells there, known as KNDy neurons, is normally held in check by oestrogen. When oestrogen falls they become overactive and signal through a messenger called neurokinin B. The comfort zone narrows, so a tiny rise in temperature sets off the full cooling response: blood vessels in the skin open, the heart speeds up and you sweat, often followed by a chill. Fezolinetant, a newer non hormonal tablet, works by blocking this same signal.
Brain fog
Oestrogen receptors are dense in the parts of the brain that handle memory and attention. Oestrogen helps brain cells use glucose for energy and supports the messengers serotonin, dopamine and acetylcholine. During perimenopause the brain is adjusting to swinging levels, and broken sleep, flushes and low mood add to the load. In the large SWAN study, the dip in learning seen during perimenopause recovered after menopause. Memory problems that are severe, getting steadily worse or affecting daily life should be checked in their own right.
Aches and pains
Oestrogen receptors are found in cartilage, the joint lining, tendons, ligaments and muscle. Oestrogen dampens inflammation and supports collagen and muscle repair. As it falls, joint pain and stiffness become more common, tendons stiffen and muscle strength drops faster. Researchers have named this the musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause. Resistance training and enough protein make the biggest difference. Hot, swollen joints, or pain that keeps getting worse, still need a proper assessment.
Vaginal and bladder changes
The vagina, vulva, urethra and base of the bladder are rich in oestrogen receptors. Oestrogen keeps the lining thick and elastic, supports blood flow and natural lubrication, and feeds the friendly bacteria that keep the area acidic and protected. Without it the lining thins and those bacteria fall, leading to dryness, soreness, pain during sex, urgency and repeated urine infections. Doctors call this genitourinary syndrome of menopause. Unlike flushes, it tends to get worse over time. Low dose vaginal oestrogen works locally and can be used long term.
1 in 2 women over 50
will break a bone because of osteoporosis.
Bones
Density falls fastest in the first years after menopause.
Heart
Cardiovascular risk starts to climb.
Vagina and bladder
These symptoms get worse with time, not better.
Why bones?
Bone is rebuilt every day.
Two crews work on your skeleton. Oestrogen is the brake on the breakdown crew.
With oestrogen: the two crews keep pace.
Without it: breakdown wins, fastest in the first few years after menopause.
Why the heart?
Oestrogen protects your arteries.
Arteries
Relaxed and flexible
Nitric oxide keeps vessel walls relaxed.
Cholesterol
Kept in balance
LDL, the ‘bad’ cholesterol, rises after menopause.
Body fat
Moves to the middle
More fat at the waist, and sugar is handled less well.
Blood pressure
Creeps up
Stiffer arteries mean higher pressure.
Same heart, less protection. Know your numbers.
What can I do?
Lifestyle first.
Not lifestyle only.
Food
Protein and calcium
Feed the muscle and bone you want to keep.
Muscle
Lift something heavy
Resistance training protects bone, muscle and balance.
Sleep
Protect it
Cooler room, steadier routine, less alcohol.
Go deeperThe science of bones and the heart
Bones
Bone is rebuilt all the time. One set of cells, osteoclasts, breaks down old bone while another, osteoblasts, lays down new bone. Oestrogen acts as a brake on the breakdown cells. When it falls, breakdown outpaces building, and bone is lost fastest in the years around your last period. Weight bearing and resistance exercise, calcium, vitamin D and protein all help. HRT reduces the risk of fractures while you take it.
The heart
Oestrogen helps the lining of your blood vessels make nitric oxide, which keeps arteries relaxed, and it helps the liver keep LDL cholesterol down. After menopause LDL cholesterol rises, arteries stiffen, blood pressure tends to climb and fat moves to the waist, so heart risk catches up over the following decade. It is worth knowing your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar (HbA1c). HRT is not prescribed to prevent heart disease, but NICE says it does not increase heart disease risk when started under 60.
So do I need a blood test?
Over 45 with symptoms?
Usually not.
We treat you, not a number.
Hormone replacement therapy
Three building blocks.
Oestrogen
Through the skin
Patch, gel or spray, with no added clot risk.
Progesterone
If you still have a womb
It protects the womb lining.
Vaginal oestrogen
For dryness and bladder symptoms
Low dose, local, and fine to use long term.
What about testosterone?
Testosterone has one proven job.
What it can help
Low sexual desire
When HRT alone has not been enough.
Not proven
Energy, mood, brain fog
The research is not there yet.
What is involved
A small daily dose
Gel or cream on the skin, with blood tests before and during treatment.
Usually tried after HRT, not instead of it.
One more thing
HRT is not contraception.
After your last period, you still need it for:
Under 50
2 more years
Over 50
1 more year
At 55
You can stop
Hormone coil
Covers both
Go deeperThe detail on diagnosis, HRT, testosterone and contraception
Diagnosis
NICE advises that women over 45 with typical symptoms are diagnosed on their symptoms, without an FSH blood test, because hormone levels swing from day to day in perimenopause. Blood tests can help under 45, and are needed if periods stop before 40.
How HRT is put together
Oestrogen relieves the symptoms. Through the skin, as a patch, gel or spray, it does not raise the risk of blood clots the way tablets do. If you have a womb you also need a progestogen to protect its lining, such as micronised progesterone capsules or a hormone coil. While you still have periods it is usually taken for part of each month. Once periods have stopped for long enough, it can be taken every day so there is no monthly bleed.
Vaginal oestrogen is very low dose. It can be used alongside HRT or on its own, and it is fine to use long term.
Testosterone
NICE says testosterone can be considered for low sexual desire when HRT alone has not helped. It is a small daily dose of gel or cream, with a blood test before starting and checks during treatment to keep levels within the normal female range. The most common side effects are acne and extra hair growth. Studies have not shown that it helps energy, mood or memory.
Contraception
HRT does not reliably prevent pregnancy, and pregnancy is still possible in perimenopause. Contraception is needed for two years after your last period if it happens before 50, and for one year if it happens after 50. Everyone can stop at 55. The 52 mg hormone coil can provide contraception and the progestogen part of HRT at the same time.
What about breast cancer?
Picture 1,000 women, all aged 50.
We follow them until they are 69.
63
will be diagnosed with breast cancer, without ever taking HRT.
+5
if all of them took oestrogen only HRT for five years.
+14
with sequential combined HRT for five years.
+20
with continuous combined HRT for five years.
980
For 980 of the 1,000, HRT makes no difference either way.
Put it in context
Out of 1,000 women aged 50 to 59, how many get breast cancer in the next five years?
British Menopause Society and Women’s Health Concern. Five year figures from a different study base to the 1,000 women before, so the HRT numbers are not the same.
Breast cancer and HRT
Time and type matter.
Under one year
Little or no extra risk.
Ten years
Roughly double the extra cases.
Vaginal oestrogen
No extra risk.
Where breast cancer comes from
Out of every 100 breast cancers in the UK.
- 8Excess weight
- 8Alcohol
- 5Not breastfeeding
- 2HRT
- 77Age, genes, chance and everything else
What about womb cancer?
Progesterone is the seatbelt.
Oestrogen on its own thickens the womb lining. Womb cancers per 1,000 women:
Bleeding on HRT? Get it checked.
1 in 3 womb cancers
is caused by excess weight. Body fat makes its own oestrogen, with no progesterone to balance it.
Go deeperWhere the cancer numbers come from
The 1,000 women
These figures come from the UK medicines regulator, the MHRA, in 2019. Of 1,000 women aged 50 who never use HRT, about 63 will be diagnosed with breast cancer by the age of 69. Five years of HRT from 50 adds about 5 cases with oestrogen only HRT, 14 with sequential combined HRT (with a monthly bleed) and 20 with continuous combined HRT (no bleed).
The comparison bars
These come from the British Menopause Society, which uses a different study base and a five year window, so its HRT figure is not the same. Its figures are under review following the 2024 NICE update, but the point holds: weight, alcohol and exercise move breast cancer risk at least as much as HRT does.
Time and type
Less than a year of HRT adds little or no risk, while ten years roughly doubles the extra cases. Some of the extra risk lasts for more than ten years after stopping. Low dose vaginal oestrogen has not been shown to raise breast cancer risk.
Womb cancer
Oestrogen on its own thickens the womb lining, which is why a progestogen is always added if you have a womb. NICE found continuous combined HRT does not increase womb cancer risk. Any unexpected bleeding on HRT should be checked.
The 100 squares
Cancer Research UK estimates how many UK breast cancers are caused by each risk factor. Around 23 in every 100 are linked to causes that can be prevented. The rest come down to age, genes, chance and factors we cannot yet change.
Breast cancer in the family?
It changes where you start.
Not how HRT works.
Research suggests HRT raises breast cancer risk by a similar proportion with or without a family history. A higher starting point makes the same change a bigger number.
Illustration only. Breast cancers per 1,000 women aged 50 to 59 over five years, using the British Menopause Society baseline of 23 and its figure for combined HRT.
When to ask for a specialist look
Does any of this match your family?
A close relative is your mother, sister or daughter. A more distant relative is a grandmother, aunt, niece or half sister. Your dad’s side counts just as much as your mum’s.
One close relative
Diagnosed under 40
A male relative
Breast cancer at any age
Your father, brother or son.
Both breasts
The first under 50
In a close relative.
Two relatives
Breast cancer at any age
Two close relatives, or one close and one more distant.
Breast and ovarian
One of each, at any age
At least one of them a close relative.
Three or more
Breast cancer at any age
Close or more distant relatives.
None of these
Usually close to average
One relative diagnosed over 40, with nothing else, is the most common story. The numbers on this page apply to you.
Any of these
Family history clinic first
Ask your GP about a referral. HRT is not automatically ruled out. The clinic helps you decide.
Based on NICE guideline CG164. Also tell your GP about Jewish ancestry, a relative with a known gene such as BRCA, or ovarian, bowel or womb cancer in the family.
Go deeperWhat a family history clinic does
Working out your risk
A family history clinic estimates your personal lifetime risk of breast cancer. Under 17% is close to average. Moderate risk is 17 to 30%, and high risk is 30% or more, which includes women who carry a known gene such as BRCA1 or BRCA2. If your chance of carrying a gene is 10% or more, you will usually be offered genetic testing, ideally starting with a relative who has had cancer.
What changes
Women at higher risk may be offered earlier or extra breast screening. If you are at moderate or high risk and considering HRT, NICE advises the lowest dose for the shortest time, oestrogen only HRT where possible (which applies if you have had a hysterectomy), and generally only up to the age of 50. HRT is not automatically ruled out. It becomes a decision you make with the specialist team.
Other cancers in the family
Ovarian cancer in the family can point to a BRCA gene. Bowel or womb cancer at a young age can point to Lynch syndrome. Mention both to your GP.
About the bars
The bars are an illustration, not anyone's measured risk. They show why the same medicine gives a bigger number when the starting point is higher. Real estimates follow the same pattern. One UK study estimated that between the ages of 50 and 80, five years of combined HRT from 50 raises breast cancer risk from about 9.8% to 11.0% with an average family history, and from about 19.6% to 22.4% with a strong family history. Example 3, Helen, walks through how this plays out.
Is HRT right for everyone?
Some women need extra care.
Breast cancer
Now or in the past
HRT is usually avoided. Your breast team guides what is safe.
Blood clots
A previous clot
Specialist advice first. Through the skin is the safer route.
Migraine
With or without aura
It does not rule HRT out. Patches and gels are preferred.
Bleeding
Unexplained bleeding
Get it checked before you start.
Extra care rarely means no options.
If HRT is not for you
HRT is not the only option.
Talking therapy
CBT for menopause
Can ease flushes, night sweats, sleep and low mood.
Non hormonal tablet
Fezolinetant
Calms the thermostat pathway. For troublesome flushes when HRT is unsuitable.
Local treatment
Moisturisers and vaginal oestrogen
For dryness and bladder symptoms, at any age.
And everything in the lifestyle section still counts.
Go deeperWho needs extra care, and the alternatives in more detail
When to take extra care
HRT is usually avoided if you have or have had breast cancer, especially if it was hormone sensitive, and decisions sit with your breast team. A previous blood clot or clotting disorder needs specialist advice first. Oestrogen through the skin does not carry the extra clot risk of tablets. Migraine, including migraine with aura, does not rule HRT out, and patches or gels at the lowest effective dose are preferred. Unexplained vaginal bleeding should be investigated before starting. Liver disease that has not settled, a recent heart attack or stroke, and high blood pressure that is not controlled also need care.
The alternatives
Cognitive behavioural therapy designed for menopause can reduce the impact of flushes, night sweats, low mood and sleep problems, with or without HRT. Fezolinetant is a once daily non hormonal tablet for moderate to severe flushes when HRT is not suitable, and it needs liver blood tests before and during treatment. Vaginal moisturisers and lubricants help with dryness. Vaginal oestrogen after breast cancer is a conversation to have with your breast team.
Herbal remedies and supplements vary widely in quality and can interact with other medicines, so tell your prescriber about anything you take.
Your menopause, your decision
A very individual journey needs a very individual conversation. Not a ten minute appointment.
Four examples
Four women. Four different answers.
Illustrative examples, not real patients. Keep scrolling to step through each one.
Example 1 of 4, not a real patient
Sarah, 47
“I feel like I am losing my mind. And my blood test was normal.”
- Periods every 5 to 7 weeks
- Night sweats
- New anxiety
- Forgetting words
- Aching joints
- Blood test: normal
What is going on?
This is perimenopause.
Over 45, symptoms make the diagnosis. Hormones swing from day to day, so one normal test proves nothing.
Replace what is swinging.
- Oestrogen patch or gelSteady levels through the skin.
- Progesterone for part of each monthProtects the womb lining while she still has periods.
- Contraception continuesHRT does not cover it.
Three months on: night sweats down from five a night to one.
Example 2 of 4, not a real patient
Priya, 54
“My mum had breast cancer. I am too scared to take HRT.”
- Last period 2 years ago
- Flushes every hour
- Mum had breast cancer at 68
- BMI 31
- Wine most evenings
What is going on?
Her own risk is close to average. Combined HRT adds about 4.
Extra breast cancers per 1,000 women over five years. British Menopause Society, women aged 50 to 59, baseline 23 per 1,000.
Now add what else moves it. Weight matters most.
Extra breast cancers per 1,000 women over five years. British Menopause Society.
Her decision, made with the real numbers.
- HRT through the skin, every dayOestrogen with progesterone. No bleed, no added clot risk.
- Less alcoholHelps flushes, sleep and breast risk.
- More movementThe biggest lever she has.
Three months on: flushes down from hourly to a few a week.
Example 3 of 4, not a real patient
Helen, 51
“Mum and my aunt both had breast cancer in their forties. Is HRT off the table?”
- Mum diagnosed at 44
- Aunt diagnosed at 47
- Last period 14 months ago
- Flushes day and night
- Barely sleeping
What is going on?
Two relatives, both young. This is not Priya.
One close relative plus one more is enough for NICE to say: family history clinic first.
Same medicine, bigger number.
Illustration only. Breast cancers per 1,000 women over five years, if HRT raises risk by the same proportion.
Not a no. A different order.
- Family history clinicHer real risk, extra screening, and whether a gene test is offered.
- Non hormonal firstCBT and fezolinetant for the flushes and the sleep.
- HRT only if symptoms stay severeLowest dose, shortest time, agreed with the specialist.
Her decision, with her team.
Review at three months
- If that is enoughStay on the non hormonal route.
- If it is notLow dose HRT through the skin, reviewed every few months.
Three months on: flushes halved without HRT. It stays in reserve.
Example 4 of 4, not a real patient
Maggie, 62
“I had a clot years ago, so I was told HRT was never for me.”
- Blood clot in her leg at 45
- Never had HRT
- Still flushing at night
- Four urine infections this year
- Sore, dry, avoiding sex
What is going on?
A past clot closes one door, not all of them.
- HRT tablets
- HRT through the skin
- Vaginal oestrogen
- CBT for menopause
- Fezolinetant
Three doors are wide open.
- HRT tabletsNot for her
- HRT through the skinSpecialist advice first
- Vaginal oestrogenYes, at any age
- CBT for menopauseYes
- FezolinetantYes, non hormonal
Three months on: sleeping through, and no infections since.
Your next step
What to do on Monday.
- Write your symptoms down.
- Book a longer appointment and say the word menopause.
- Ask about your options, and a review at three months.
- Read more: NHS and Women’s Health Concern.
In England, an HRT prepayment certificate covers a year of listed HRT medicines for £19.80.
Take home
- Plan early.
- It’s more than just hot flushes.
- HRT is not for everyone, but the conversation is.
- No one should just ‘get on with it’.
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